“Is it stupid when you like someone that cant be yours?” (YMTA, 2011)

I found this on FB:

“Is it stupid when you like someone that cant be yours?” (YMTA, 2011)

Semantically, it is not a big deal at all since the person used the word ‘like’, and clearly, it is really2 not stupid and nothing has to be argued. So the answer is just ‘NO’.

But just to make the person feels that I understand what she was trying to convey, I personally switch the ‘like’ to ‘love’ and now it is debatable and becomes an issue. (How good I am)

I’m not planning to write a lot. So, we go straight to the point.

1. Human being is created with feelings and these feelings are unpredictable. Nothing can be made as a concrete-fact when it comes to the feelings matter. Feelings are abstract, something that cannot be touched, cannot be listened, cannot be felt, etc. That’s why whatever comes from our heart is considered as something raw. It depends on us on how to extend the feelings, maybe we want to ignore it, and maybe we want to bring it to the real life. If the feeling is good, it is good for us to extend it to the next level. But if it is not, we must ignore it. For example, if we feel that we want to kick a cat after it bites us, it is not wrong at all. But if we really kick the cat after we felt want to, it is wrong! (That’s why we are not given ‘sin’ when we plan to do a sin. We will be considered as sinner after we really do the sin)

2. It is not stupid to love someone that can’t be yours because of several things, we call it as dream and expectation. When we found someone who we love, that means we are setting a dream. Of course when we love someone, he/she must have the best criteria that we are looking for. Eventhough we can’t get the person, it’s ok because at least we are now clear about how our upcoming partner should look like. Expectation, of course we will have an expectation about out partner. So eventhough the person can’t be ours, at least we are setting several expectations for our future partner. It is all about today’s failure-like benefits our future decisions. So, ‘yes’ we will feel upset for not getting the person now, but it is not stupid. It is clever to prepare for the future, and set some sort of benchmark to face the future.

3. Love is blind. You can be blind, I can be blind, people around you can be blind, and be blinded by love. So it is not stupid to love people that can’t be yours, we are just being blinded. Blind is not stupid. We just can’t see (yet hopefully).

Ok that’s all.

An Entry That Not So Many People Like To Read

Who do we think we are???

Let’s count together, how many seconds left do we have to live before we die (for real). Let’s count, starting from the number ‘0’…

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You know what, we can’t even sure that we will live at the next second. ‘0’ means, yes we know we are living now, but the next second, which is after this second, are we sure that we still have this breath? Are we sure that this soul will still in this body? We are not sure… we can’t be sure.

Such a terrifying topic I bring here, for sure, free readers don’t prefer to read this stuff, because for them, we must read something about the world. Yeah rite, about foods, about songs, about movies, about fashions, about gossips… all about the current world. Are we one of these readers? Put down your finger from your forehead, no need to think. If we are still thinking of the correct answer, or maybe thinking of the rationales or reasons for being like that, let me help you: Yes most of us are a part of them, and no reason!

We are too busy looking at the branches of a tree. We do not plant any interest to the tree at all, we don’t even know what kind of tree is that. We are too busy making us feeling satisfy with our delusional world, for God sake. We are not blind, we are given maps to be followed but we choose to blind ourselves. We want to feel that this world is everything even we clearly know that it is not. It is just a tiny creation from the whole thing. This earth, this life, is a very important short period to determine our eternal future which is an important tiny part from the whole fantastic plan. The plan! We are now living on a path that specifically follow the God’s plan without any minuscule distraction. We are moving forward…

Look at ourselves. Please be shame. We live in this world following our own books, the ones that we created with our ‘super-duper’ reasons and rationales that brighten all the dark places and perfume all the fetidness of wrongdoings and sins. We deny the mighty God. By knowing that, are we scared enough? If not, please be scared.

We celebrate our sins. We are proud with our evilness. We tell our friends and laugh together to celebrate our ‘achievements’ of having sex with so many girls and women. We respect people with pervert mouth that swear and confidently talk about how good they are in knowing about how to do bad things. We listen, we laugh, we like. Okay fine, and now let’s think. With all of these achievements of fulfilling our passion to gain our self-satisfaction, how will it ends? Where do we want to bring all these things? Have we being given some kind of exception to get through the judgment day without the judgment? No judgment on the judgment day? No need to think, because I believe we straightly get the answers when we saw those question marks. Because we have these schemata, we know but we refuse to follow. Why? Because WE ARE TOO BUSY FEELING SO SATISFY.

We are not allowed to know a lot of secrets that The God keeps from us. One of them is our death. When and where. Today or tomorrow. Due to the enemies’ swords or alcohol addict. We just do not know. How about we prepare from now. Prepare for our own death, for our own future. Don’t simply say about living in heaven unless we prepare well, following the guidance that has been given, been delivered by our beloved prophet (PBUH). Have faith, don’t loose hope.

For people (including me, no exception) who are reading this and still planning to continue your never-ending-life with blings and names, please rethink.

Turn to the right path. It is still there, waiting for us to walk on it.

Count back, with faith, how many seconds left do you have:

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Who do we think we are…